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            LETS SAY YOUR NOT GETTING SUGGESTIONS RIGHT NOW AND YOU WANT TO CHANGE THAT     CHOOSE SOMETHING ON THE LIST, WAIT A DAY OR TWO , CHOOSE ANOTHER.   ANYTHING YOU DO AS A GROUP IS 10X MORE POWERFUL THEN DOING IT BY YOURSELF.     1. READ AND STUDY LETTERS FROM ETERNAL JOY. ALIGN YOURSELF WITH THE REBBES WISDOM.     2. GIVE CHARITY TO A NEEDY KALLAH OR TO A FUND THAT HELPS KALLAHS.     3. HELP A KALLAH WITH SOMETHING FOR HER CHASUNAH.     4. ADD TEHILLIM.     5. ADD SOMEONE ELSES CHILD KAPITAL TEHILLIM.     6. ADD A LEARNING SEDER     7. ADD A DAVENING.     8. IF YOU ALREADY DAVEN 3 TIMES A DAY, AND ALREADY DO CHITAS, ADD SOMETHING ELSE.     9. GET A BRACHA FROM SOMEONE WHO CARES ABOUT YOU.     10. HAVE A FARBRENGEN, GIVE EVERYONE BROCHOS.     11. SEND THE RESUME TO  A SHADCHAN THAT DOESN'T HAVE IT YET.     12. MAKE PHONE CALLS FOR SOMEONE ELSES CHILD.     13. WRITE DOWN 3 THINGS EVERY DAY THAT YOU ARE GRATEFUL FOR UNTIL THE VORT.     14. CALL PEOPLE FROM THE GROUP AND ASK ...