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LETS SAY YOUR NOT GETTING SUGGESTIONS RIGHT NOW AND YOU WANT TO CHANGE THAT

CHOOSE SOMETHING ON THE LIST, WAIT A DAY OR TWO , CHOOSE ANOTHER.

ANYTHING YOU DO AS A GROUP IS 10X MORE POWERFUL THEN DOING IT BY YOURSELF.

1. READ AND STUDY LETTERS FROM ETERNAL JOY. ALIGN YOURSELF WITH THE REBBES WISDOM.

2. GIVE CHARITY TO A NEEDY KALLAH OR TO A FUND THAT HELPS KALLAHS.

3. HELP A KALLAH WITH SOMETHING FOR HER CHASUNAH.

4. ADD TEHILLIM.

5. ADD SOMEONE ELSES CHILD KAPITAL TEHILLIM.

6. ADD A LEARNING SEDER

7. ADD A DAVENING.

8. IF YOU ALREADY DAVEN 3 TIMES A DAY, AND ALREADY DO CHITAS, ADD SOMETHING ELSE.

9. GET A BRACHA FROM SOMEONE WHO CARES ABOUT YOU.

10. HAVE A FARBRENGEN, GIVE EVERYONE BROCHOS.

11. SEND THE RESUME TO  A SHADCHAN THAT DOESN'T HAVE IT YET.

12. MAKE PHONE CALLS FOR SOMEONE ELSES CHILD.

13. WRITE DOWN 3 THINGS EVERY DAY THAT YOU ARE GRATEFUL FOR UNTIL THE VORT.

14. CALL PEOPLE FROM THE GROUP AND ASK FOR SUGGESTIONS.

15. CALL A  SHIDDUCH COACH.

16. GO OVER YOUR LIST WITH YOUR MASHPIA.

17. IMPROVE YOUR SHALOM BAYIS, MATTER HOW GOOD IT ALREADY IS. 

18. WORK ON LETTING GO OF GRUDGES, FORGIVENESS.

19. MAKE UP WITH PEOPLE THAT YOU ARE ANGRY WITH.

20. GO TO YOUR RELATIVES GRAVES.

21. MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HIS FAVORITE FOOD .

22. BUY SOMETHING FOR  SON/DAUGHTER IN LAW YOU WISH TO HAVE.

23. BUY SOMETHING FOR THE VORT/L'CHAIM/BRIDAL SHOWER.

24. START MAKING THE GUEST LIST, GET ADDRESSES.

25. START PREPARING THE HOUSE AS IF GUESTS ARE COMING SOON. FIX THE HINGE, THE CABINET DOOR,ETC.

26. PUT A DOLLAR IN THE ENVELOPE MARKED FOR THE CHASUNAH.

27. HAVE A TACHLIS MEETING AT YOUR HOUSE.

28. SEND OUT A NO NAME , NO CITY PROFILE ON THE SHIDDUCH GROUP NETWORK.

29. POST THIS PROFILE ON LEAH SILVERMANS WEBSITE.

30. JOIN CHABADMATCH.

31. GIVE 18 CENTS A DAY TO A KALLAH FUND.

32. GIVE A FEW PENNIES TO A PUSHKA A FEW TIMES A DAY AND DAVEN FOR WHAT YOU WANT.

33. GET A  BRACHA FROM A KALLAH ON HER CHASUNAH DAY.

34. BRING YOUR HUSBAND A BEVERAGE HE WOULD LIKE.

35. GO TO A  SHABBOS KALLAH OR A COMMUNITY GATHERING AND WORK ON STRAINED RELATIONSHIPS.

36. DROP OFF A DESSERT TO A SHABBOS KALLAH.

37. MAKE A SUGGESTION FOR SOMEONE ELSES CHILD.

38. DAVEN FOR A PERSONAL MIRACLE, ALL SHIDDUCHIM ARE PERSONAL MIRACLES.