Gemara Megillah 15a Bracha?

DON'T UNDERESTIMATE THE BRACHA FROM ANOTHER JEW



Gemara Megillah 15a:
אמר ר' חנינא לעולם אל תהי ברכת הדיוט קלה בעיניך

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